How Do I Get My Older Cat to Like My New Kitten?

Bringing home a new kitten is exciting — but let’s be real, your older cat is probably not here for it. Older cats are all about their routines, and a chaotic, pint-sized ball of energy is basically their worst nightmare, so taking things slow is key.

Getting two kittens could help ease the transition for your older cat. The kittens can wear each other out with their wild antics, giving your older cat a chance to observe, join in when they’re feeling social, or retreat when they’ve had enough. No one likes to be pestered nonstop, least of all your dignified senior cat.

If adopting two kittens to entertain each other isn’t in the cards, get ready to become the kitten’s full-time play buddy. We’re talking marathon play sessions multiple times a day to drain that seemingly endless energy on toys — because if you don’t, your older cat is going to be the one getting pounced on 24/7. But that doesn’t mean there is no chance of them getting along. In fact, some older cats will be happy for the company — here are a few tips to help you get your older cat to like your new kitten.

Getting started introducing your older cat to your kitten

While it might be tempting to introduce your cat and kitten as soon as they come home, this can actually cause more harm than good. Instead, follow these steps to help build a positive relationship and avoid common issues during the introduction process.

Step 1: Keep them separated

Keep the new kitten isolated and feed both the older cat and kitten with a closed door. Over a few days, move the bowls closer to the door so they are eating close together with just the door between them.

Step two: Help them smell each other safely

Prop the door enough that they can see and smell each other. Do this for a few minutes each day for several days. During this time, swap their blankets so they can get used to each other’s scents.

Step three: Let them meet, but keep it short

Bring your older cat into the room with the kitten. Your cat may hiss and snarl, ignore the kitten completely, or be just fine. A little hissing is okay, but it indicates the cat’s discomfort and need to slow down. It’s important to step in and separate them before things get physical. Let them spend about ten minutes together during the initial meeting.

Step four: Slowly ease into longer durations

Increase the time the cats spend together by five or so minutes each day. How this next part goes will depend on how the cats seem to be getting along. You may have to take things more slowly or you might realize they are ready to be proper housemates. 

With proper introductions, lots of playtime with you to expend their kitten energy, and a healthy dose of patience, your older cat will likely accept your new kitten — even if they don’t spend every waking moment together.